After spending over 20 years facilitating wedding celebrations and counseling couples who are moving their relationships from an engagement, into the structure of marriage, I quit.

I was literally exhausted from all the negative emotions around the wedding day.

I had witnessed too many brides turn this day into a disappointing and less-than-fulfilling experience for themselves and as a result to all those around them simply because they weren't able to center or control their emotions.  

A condition I refer to as "Bridal Stress Disorder"

Almost without fail, a few days after the celebration, I would meet with and discuss how everything went with the couple and often, more than I care to remember, it was disappointing.  

They couldn't seem to pinpoint it; just that it wasn't what they expected to "feel" that day.  Even though the day had appeared successful, they often did not feel that.

Often I would get comments like "the buns weren't crispy enough" or "the head table didn't look I expected" or "the sprinkles on the table weren't the right color" and on and on.  

I started to really feel that something was going wrong here.

They spent the money, they had the support and love of their families, they had the beautiful dress, their groom was waiting anxiously at the end of the aisle, etc. etc. but still the "feeling" wasn't what they expected.

So, what "feeling" was missing?  

And how had it been destroyed.

I will tell you what I discovered.

As from the first moment I met with a potential bride, she was already in the process of losing that feeling.

Every bride desires to be beautiful and attractive in everyway for her wedding.  Many go to great length to lose weight, change things about themselves etc., just to be the best they can be.

It is what we as a culture have grown to expect, and as a women we believe we must be everything to everyone or we have failed.  This shows up very profoundly around a wedding celebration.

Everything must of course go right during the ceremony and reception also.  If the wedding cake topper isn't exactly like the one chosen, or the "drip-less" candles are dripping or the MC faints - these are disasters to the bride.

There is so much emphasis on the status around a wedding, we are unable to really relax and enjoy it.  

Every bride feels she needs to be told how fantastic the food, service, decor and music is and how well everyone really enjoyed himself or herself or she has failed.

No one feels this as much as the bride.  The groom does not experience this disorder of emotions, or at least not as often.  It is a bride's issue.

And as she tries to "shine" her way through her wedding, she ends up so preoccupied with everything else that she forgets the whole reason for the day.   

She has tried so hard to be perfect, to please everyone that she has lost herself and her own joy in the experience.

Are you desperately trying to please everyone around you?

Do your parents want things a certain way and you feel you have no say about it?

Do you feel fear, anxiety, nervousness, panic about your wedding day?

Are you concerned about how the "families" will act through the wedding process?

Do you feel like you have to invite people who you don't know or even like?

Are others pressuring you about your wedding and you don't even have the ability to think about how exactly you would "create your wedding day" if you and your groom could have it anyway you wanted it?

Do you have problems saying "no"?

Are you concerned about handling all the details of your wedding without the experience of having planned anything remotely close to this before?

Are you afraid to ask for help in case everyone thinks you are stupid or incapable?

Do you feel like there is no one to turn to - not your groom, nor your bridesmaids?

Is your "fairytale" wedding taking a spin off track?

Do you feel like you should be feeling joy and really only feeling stress?

Do you feel like your groom is not participating and really not seeming interested?

If you are encountering any of these problems, your "feeling" is getting lost.  You have bought into negative emotions generally associated with Bridal Stress Disorder, brought on by an overburdened stress system.

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You should note that these are all feelings and emotions you are taking into your marriage with you.  Feeling "not good enough", shame, guilt, anger and unexpressed emotions are not the foundation for a happy wedding celebration experience or are they the foundations for a happy marriage.

What I have come to realize is that what is to be the DEEPEST, MOST SPIRITUALLY MOVING CEREMONY OF A COUPLES LIFE, where couples transform their love through a ceremony into what we call it marriage, had become an EGO BASED PERSONALITY DRIVEN experience, often ruined completely by Bridal Stress Disorder.

The true meaning, the true feeling, the true essence of the wedding is lost because of this emotional condition.

When the soul of a marriage is strong it will be because both the women and man involved are emotionally centered in love and understands their own emotional nature and how it affects everyone around them.

One marriage affects thousands of people and future generations.  

A very important profound life experience is happening and we are making it about the decorations or about getting our own way.

After having facilitated over 2000 plus weddings, I know you have aspirations and expectations about your wedding.  I know how badly you want to achieve these goals.  And I am here to help you excel in these.

We all have a very deep spiritual need in us to have this relationship "stand out and be noticed" by the world.  This day is meant to set it apart from all other days and this relationship is meant to be shown as special.  It is meant to consecrate your relationship, to make this day a reference point, and it is putting real value to the relationship through this celebration.

Never again will you ever spend this much money, time, energy and emotion into making one-day "stand out"!  I will show you how you can ENJOY EVERY SINGLE moment you invest into this day. 

Preparing for this day the sanctification of your relationship means not seeing it as an act of "self-indulgence" but as an offering of love and joy and hope to the fulfillment of it's higher meaning.

Your wedding should be a joyful occasion full of relaxation, joy and happiness and this can be easily accomplished through taking the time to remove all elements of negativity by transforming your wedding planning experience into a true expression of love with this amazing relaxation, visualization and meditation CD.

Through this remarkable CD; you will become skilled at:

• Pleasing yourself first, and keeping your relationship number one

• Voicing your opinion in a kind and loving way
   

• Focusing on happiness, joy and fun

• Obtaining your desires without offending anyone
   

• Learning to say no and be ok about it

• Asking for help and receiving it without hesitation

• Involving your groom and staying connected to him

• Releasing family pressure

You'll spend hundreds of hours planning your wedding day and here is a tool that will make you enjoy every hour of it.   

In 39 minutes you will figure out how to take away all your pressure and stress and look forward to a Wedding Day filled with joy!

I urge you to not wake-up the next day after your wedding stunned at your behavior or the behaviors of those around you, hating the whole experience or wanting another chance to make it right.

Here's the bottom line:  Do it right the first time.  Let me assist you to create a beautiful blueprint for success on your wedding day and through your marriage.

Listen, learn and I assure you that you will accomplish the main goal of your wedding - a focus on the commitment you are going to make.

Isn't your marriage worth the investment?  

I've spent the better part of five years soul searching for solutions to bridal stress disorder and through that I have created this remarkable CD to deal with it and I'm willing to let you have it - risk free - for just $24.97 USD! 

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As I've said throughout this personal letter, my goal in creating this CD is to help as many brides as possible realize their dreams of a beautiful and stress-free wedding. Because I spent years interacting with thousands of brides, and because I've dealt directly with brides and their fears, stress and negativities, I am 100% confident that you will be ecstatic with your investment.

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SpiritofMarriage.com

P.S. I am a little worried that the companion CD "4 Spiritual Laws to Live By While Planning Your Wedding Day " bonus that I am currently offering has the potential to sell out immediately...so I am only offering this bonus for an extremely limited time.  This CD alone has the potential to alter your entire perception on wedding pressures, life pressures and where your relationship can be - this alone is worth well in excess of the small investment.

Unfortunately, due to this result, I may have no choice but to stop offering this bonus.  (Of course, everyone who purchased the CD while the bonus was still offered will receive the extra CD).

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